Why dogs cry and what to do

Do dogs cry tears?

A common question that arises is whether dogs cry tears in the same way humans do. The answer is a little more complicated than it seems.

In strictly physiological terms, dogs can produce tears, but not as a response to emotion. Tears in dogs are more a response to a physical stimulus, such as an irritation in the eyes. If you notice your dog has watery eyes frequently, it could be a sign that something is not right, such as an eye infection, allergies, or a blocked tear duct. In these cases, it is important to consult a veterinarian to determine the underlying cause.

However, when dogs cry, it is more common for them to do so through other means, such as vocal sounds or changes in their behavior, rather than tears.

How do dogs cry?

So, if dogs cry but not necessarily with tears, how do they express their discomfort or sadness? Dogs use a combination of vocalizations, body language, and behavior to express that they are distressed.

Vocalizations can include whimpers, whines, or even howls. These sounds can vary in tone and intensity depending on the reason dogs cry. In addition to sounds, they may also show signs of restlessness, such as pacing, scratching at the door, or trying to stay as close as possible to their owner.

Another way dogs cry is through their body language. Ears pulled back, a low tail, or avoiding eye contact are signs that your dog may be sad or anxious. These behaviors are important cues that owners should learn to recognize to be able to provide adequate support to their pet.

Why do dogs cry?

Now that we understand how dogs cry, it is crucial to explore the reasons behind this behavior. The reasons can vary widely, from simple physical needs to deeper emotional issues.

To get our attention

One of the most common reasons why dogs cry is to get our attention. Dogs are social animals and rely heavily on interaction with their owners. If your dog feels ignored or wants something, such as going for a walk or simply receiving a few cuddles, they may start to cry or whine as a way of telling you "hey, I'm here, pay attention to me!".

It is important to respond to these signals, but it is also crucial not to reinforce the behavior if it becomes excessive. One way to address it is to make sure your dog gets enough exercise, mental stimulation, and affection during the day, so they don't feel the need to constantly cry for attention. Use dog toys to improve your connection with your pet.

To express discomfort

Another reason why dogs cry is to express their discomfort. Dogs, like humans, can feel pain, fear, anxiety, or discomfort, and crying is a way to communicate it.

For example, if your dog is sick or has suffered an injury, they will likely cry to let you know that something is not right. Similarly, stressful situations such as fireworks, thunderstorms, or even the presence of strangers can cause a dog to cry out of fear or anxiety.

In these cases, it is essential to identify the source of discomfort and take steps to alleviate it. This could include visiting the vet, providing a safe and calm environment, or using training techniques to reduce anxiety.

Most common causes why dogs cry

To better understand why dogs cry, it is helpful to know some of the most common causes of this behavior. Here we explore some of them.

They miss their mother

Especially in puppies, a common reason why dogs cry is because they miss their mother and their littermates. The first few days after being separated from their family can be especially difficult, and it is normal for puppies to cry during this adaptation period.

To help your puppy feel more secure and comfortable, you can provide them with a soft blanket, a wrapped warm water bottle, or even a stuffed animal that simulates warmth and a heartbeat. Over time, your puppy will adapt to their new home and stop crying as much.

They are hungry

Another reason why dogs cry is because they are hungry. Dogs, especially puppies, have a fast metabolism and need to eat frequently. If your dog cries near mealtime, it is likely that they are trying to tell you it's time to feed them.

Make sure to follow a regular feeding schedule and provide your dog with a balanced diet appropriate for their age, size, and activity level. This will help reduce episodes of hunger-related crying.

Anxiety, loneliness, sadness...

Anxiety is another important cause why dogs cry. Loneliness, in particular, can be a trigger, especially for dogs who are used to the constant company of their owners. A dog left alone for long periods can develop separation anxiety, which can lead them to cry, destroy objects in the house, or exhibit other problematic behaviors.

In addition to anxiety, sadness can also be a cause. Dogs can experience a kind of depression, whether due to the loss of a canine companion, a change in routine, or even changes in the family environment, such as a move or the arrival of a new family member.

Health problems

Finally, why dogs cry may be related to health problems. Pain, physical discomfort, or an underlying illness can cause a dog to cry to indicate that something is not right. You can try to check if your dog is sad or sick. Dental problems, infections, or chronic diseases can be particularly painful and lead to your dog crying more frequently.

My dog cries when I leave: tips

One of the most common scenarios where owners wonder why dogs cry is when we have to leave our dog home alone for work. "My dog cries when I leave" is a phrase many owners worriedly utter, knowing that besides turning the house upside down, the dog is suffering for a good while. This behavior is related to separation anxiety. 

Here are some basic guidelines and tips to help your dog cope with your absence:

Accustom Your Dog to Being Alone Gradually

Start with short sessions: Leave your dog alone for very short periods and return before they get distressed. Gradually increase the time of absence so they get used to being alone. Practice independence at home: Encourage your dog to be in another room while you are at home, so they don't depend on your constant presence.

Create a Predictable Routine

Establish schedules: Dogs thrive on routine. Try to maintain consistent schedules for walks, meals, and breaks, which gives them a sense of security. Make departures and arrivals calm: Avoid making a big fuss when leaving or returning. Ignore your dog for a few minutes before leaving and after arriving to reduce anticipation of these moments.

Provide Mental and Physical Enrichment

Physical exercise: A tired dog is less prone to developing anxiety. Make sure your dog gets enough exercise before you leave. Use interactive toys and puzzles: Give them toys that stimulate their mind, such as food dispensers or toys that require them to work for a reward. This will keep them busy and distracted.

Use Desensitization Techniques

Perform false departures: Pretend to leave, but don't actually leave the house: put on your shoes, grab your keys, put on your coat... but don't leave, sit on the couch for a while, stay like that for 5 minutes, and put things back in their place. This helps desensitize your dog to the signals of your departure; associate it with something positive: Give your dog a special treat or toy only when you leave, so they associate your departure with something positive.

Create a Safe and Welcoming Environment

Make their space comfortable: Leave your dog in a place where they feel safe, with their favorite bed, toys, and a piece of clothing with your scent. Background noise: Leave the radio or television on for background noise, which can be comforting for some dogs.

Avoid Punishing Anxious Behavior

Do not punish: If your dog shows signs of anxiety when you leave or return, do not punish them. Punishment will only increase their stress and worsen the problem.

Consult a Professional if Necessary

Professional help: If your dog's separation anxiety symptoms are severe, consider working with a canine ethologist or a certified behavior trainer. In extreme cases, a veterinarian might recommend medication to help your dog cope with anxiety.

Consider Care Alternatives

Dog daycares or walkers: If your dog has trouble being alone for long periods, consider services like dog daycares or hiring a walker to come to your home.

Stay Calm and Patient

Gradual progress: Remember that overcoming separation anxiety takes time. Stay calm and be patient, and celebrate your dog's small achievements.

What to do if my dog cries at night?

Another common situation where owners face this problem: "my dog cries at night," what can I do? This behavior can be especially frustrating, as it interrupts our sleep and that of other household members. There are several reasons why dogs cry at night, from needing to go outside to fear of being alone in a dark and silent environment.

Here are some tips to deal with this problem:

Establish a nightly routine: Make sure your dog has a consistent routine before bed. This can include a last trip outside, some playtime to burn off energy, and a comfortable place to sleep.

Provide a safe environment: Some dogs feel safer sleeping in a crate or a designated area of the house. Make sure this place is comfortable and associated with positive things, such as toys or a favorite blanket, or a piece of your clothing with your scent, which will help them feel calmer.

Check their comfort: Make sure your dog isn't crying because they are cold, hungry, or need to go outside. If your dog is a puppy or an older dog, they may need more nighttime potty breaks.

Avoid reinforcing crying: If you rush to comfort your dog every time they cry, you might be reinforcing this behavior. Try to wait a few minutes before responding to see if your dog calms down on their own.

Consult a veterinarian: If your dog cries constantly at night and nothing seems to help, it might be useful to consult with a veterinarian to rule out any underlying health problems or receive additional recommendations.

Understanding why dogs cry is the first step to helping them feel better. From separation anxiety to physical pain, there are many reasons why your dog might be crying. However, with patience and the right strategies, you can help your dog overcome their distress and live a happier, calmer life.

If you notice that your dog's crying persists or intensifies, it is advisable to consult with a veterinarian or a canine ethologist. They can offer a more detailed diagnosis and a personalized action plan for your dog's specific needs.

Remember, your dog trusts you for their well-being. From Tqel, we recommend paying attention to the signals they give you and responding with care is the best way to ensure your four-legged friend feels safe, loved, and understood.